Reflections on Endings and Beginnings

A Planning Post By this time in the year many homeschooling families are wrapping up their school work, getting ready for the summer. Whether we’ve finished all our scheduled work (not me, ever), or whether we’ve called it off early because there are so many other things we’d rather be doing (usually me), one way … Read more

The Diner Episode 9

Irrational Rationalism Welcome to The Diner! Sit at the counter of our virtual diner and let us serve you a slice of mental pie! It’ll go good with a cup of coffee, then you get your refreshed self back to the fray with a few new beautiful thoughts to think. Today’s episode is about how … Read more

When Johnny Hates Math

and all the other subjects too Patterns for Life is a reader-supported publication. To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber. Ordo amoris. A famous phrase that connotes the right ordering of our loves. As parent educators we feel the heavy weight of ensuring that our children’s loves … Read more

The Diner Episode 8

Moral Agency Welcome to The Diner! Sit at the counter of our virtual diner and let us serve you a slice of mental pie! It’ll go good with a cup of coffee, then you get your refreshed self back to the fray with a few new beautiful thoughts to think. In this episode we discuss … Read more

A Perfect Dinner Party

the work of hospitality I typically see hospitality as something I don’t do well. When I contemplate hosting friends for dinner I usually find myself running through a litany of things that I lack: I don’t have fancy dinner-ware. I don’t have a large kitchen. There’s barely enough seating in the house for our family, … Read more

The Diner Episode 7

Moral Luck Part 2 Welcome to The Diner! Sit at the counter of our virtual diner and let us serve you a slice of mental pie! It’ll go good with a cup of coffee, then you get your refreshed self back to the fray with a few new beautiful thoughts to think. In this episode … Read more

The Diner Episode 6

Moral Luck Part 1 Welcome to the Diner! Sit at the counter of our virtual diner and let us serve you a slice of mental pie! It’ll go good with a cup of coffee, then you get your refreshed self back to the fray with a few new beautiful thoughts to think. In this episode … Read more

Doing Our Duty

A Reframing Parenting is hard work; so hard that there are many times we simply grit our teeth to get through the moment. Whether it’s a toddler’s tantrum, a tween’s hormones, or a teenager’s experiments with independence and agency, it is simply a fact there are times when doing the right thing feels like a … Read more